Try these best sex positions to orgasm every single time!
What are the best sex positions for female orgasm? Often forgotten in the rush for sexual pleasure between a male and female partner is her orgasm. The vast majority of women do not climax from vaginal penetration alone, and even those who do need more than the thrust of a penis in and out of their body. How a woman is touched – by her partner or herself – matters. Using sex toys, finding the right angles, and using the right sexual position all contribute to whether one or both partners will experience an orgasm during sex.
Trying new positions can feel a little stressful for some people, but it doesn’t have to. Remember that sex is meant to be about fun and pleasure. Go into new experiments with a sense of adventure and the idea that even if it doesn’t work, part of the fun is in trying something new. You won’t always like every position you try, but you don’t have to.
Climax doesn’t have to be the purpose for every intimate moment between you and a partner, but when you really want to get off, make sure you’re in the right position.
There is much more to missionary position than a guy on top of a woman banging away at his partner. Small tweaks to the same old position can make a big difference. Try pulling your legs up and back towards your chest to change the angle of penetration. This may allow his penis to hit your G-spot or rub against the underside of your clitoris for additional stimulation. You can also put a hand between your legs to touch your clitoris during sex or your partner can do it for you. Another option is to keep your bodies close together during penetration to allow your partner to grind their pelvis against yours, stimulating your clit and bringing you to orgasm more easily.
2. DOGGY STYLE
Doggy style is great for a deeper penetrative thrust. For women who need and want g-spot stimulation, being penetrated from behind often adds much more sensation. You or your partner also have the option to reach between your legs and stimulate your clitoris at the same time. To get more out of the position, bend down over the bed as far as you can go, spread your knees wide, and arch your back. Another option is to close your knees and to create more of a squeeze during penetration. Even a small, slight moment can offer a deeper thrust or change the angle enough to pound your g-spot just right.
3. COWGIRL a.k.a WOMAN ON TOP
The vast majority of women experience orgasms when they try the cowgirl position. Essentially, you’re on top of your partner, facing them. You can bend forward or arch your back to change the angle, depending on what feels good to you. You also have the ability to control the pace and the grind of your groin against your partner’s. Some guys enjoy grabbing you by the hips and holding you still while they thrust upwards – it can be a kinky way to give up control during sex. If you’re still not getting enough stimulation to your clitoris in this position, you can always dip a hand between you to stroke yourself as you ride your partner.
Spooning is a very intimate sexual position. You and your partner lay on your sides, pressed against each other. He’s behind you, and your back is against his chest. With a slight tilt to your hips and pelvis, your partner penetrates your vagina from behind. For some people, the angle and position alone will be enough to hit your g-spot. For others, you or your partner can use a hand or a sex toy on your clitoris for added stimulation. This position also gives your partner better access to touch more of your body, stroking your breasts and other sensitive areas. The added sensations increase desire and overall satisfaction during sex.
5. SIXTY-NINE (69)
Sixty-nine has nothing to do with penetrative sex and everything to do with pleasure. Typically, the woman is on top during sixty-nine but you don’t have to be. The only thing you need to do is have your mouths on each other’s genitals. You might hear that sixty-nine is difficult to do because the pleasure you feel can distract you from giving pleasure. Turn that distraction into a game. Put all your focus into what your tongue does to your partner to see if you can make them let go and moan first. Even if you lose, you still win. Another game to play with sixty-nine is to see who gets off first. Again, there is no way to “lose” this one as the whole point is mutual pleasure and orgasms.
6. REVERSE COWGIRL
Reverse Cowgirl takes the Cowgirl position and puts it on steroids. You’re on top of your partner again, but this time, you’re facing away – toward their feet. While you’re riding their cock, they get a view of your back and butt which can be a huge turn on for some people. This is a great position to increase pleasure for both of you. Your partner’s penis will be at a different angle, as will your body which means each thrust will hit in a different way than you might be used to. You’ll have a much better chance of hitting your g-spot while stimulating your clit plus you can stroke your partner’s testicles or play with their perineum at the same time.
Scissoring is a more advanced position and may take a little practice to find the right angle for you and your partner. To do it, two of you lay at an angle to each other with your legs intertwined. While you may “join” at the groin, your head is closer to his feet, and his head is closer to your feet. You enjoy a lot less body contact in the Scissor position, but you also have more freedom of movement to stimulate your own clit or pinch your own nipples to increase your pleasure. Play with the position of your legs and the angle of your pelvis to find the position that works best for both of you. Because it’s a different way to have sex, you may have to try different variations to find what works for you.
The straddle position allows you to lie back and experience pure pleasure at the hands of your partner. Your partner is on top, essentially straddling one of your legs while holding your other leg up. You can bend your knee and rest your foot on his shoulder or you may want to keep your leg extended against his shoulder – whichever is most comfortable for you. Either of you can use your hand or a sex toy to stimulate your clitoris while you enjoy a deeper penetration because your leg is up and extended. It also gives your partner a great view of your expressions and your body during sex and when you climax.
The bridge position shouldn’t be tried by beginners or anyone who doesn’t have a certain amount of upper body strength. Just as the name suggests, you must hold your position in a lifted bridge position in order for it to work. Put your palms flat on the floor with arms extended. Stretch your legs in front of you with your heels on the floor. Your partner will kneel between your legs to penetrate you while your hips are lifted off the floor or bed. It’s best to do this position on a sturdy surface like a floor or a very firm mattress. To make it more comfortable, you can use a wedge or stack pillows under your body. Your partner will have better access to your clit to rub and play with to help get you off.
Sex is supposed to be fun and pleasurable for both you and your partner. If you’re not getting off the way you want to during sex, it’s time for a conversation with your partner and a bit of experimentation. Not every position will work for you, and some require practice. Try a new sexual position in multiple different ways and let yourself experiment a little before you decide a sex position works or doesn’t.
It’s okay to play around with sex and what kinds of positions you want to try. The whole point is to find something that makes you both feel good and gives you what you want. There are couple of popular orgasms that could happen to women. If you know you need clitoral stimulation to get off, look for positions that give you and your partner easier access to your clit and don’t be afraid to touch yourself or use a vibrator during sex. And if you love g-spot stimulation and orgasms, try positions that penetrate deeper and hit you at new or different angles. Remember, this is all about having fun and experiencing pleasure. Keep experimenting until you find the sex positions that work best for you. Have fun in your exploration! [Like it? CLICK TO TWEET] or leave comments below!